Still a Virgin?

Are you still a virgin? Maybe you’re not in the traditional sense but maybe there is something risqué that you have never done? What is your sexual bucket list? Is there some special place you would like to try something intimate or is there something that somehow passed you by and now you are too embarrassed to admit that at your age you’ve never tried it or you should now how to do? Perhaps you want to try that exhilarating ride in the elevator, show up somewhere in just a trench coat or join the famous mile high club. Maybe it’s not even that extravagant or naughty and you just want to know how to do something simple like how to put a condom on your partner.

I am sure we all have thought about these unknown experiences. And if you do want to bite the bullet (or anything else for that matter) should you try these new things with someone new or someone you have been with before? Also, should you keep it to yourself or should you tell the person you are going to try this new feat with to avoid any confusion, awkwardness and/or to help give you some guidance?

Luckily for some of you that think you have tried it all sexually, you can still be considered a virgin. According to Wikipedia, virginity in its modern usage is also applied informally to non-sexual matters. For example, someone who has never gone skydiving might be referred to as a skydiving virgin, (one type of virgin I will remain forever!) It is also commonly used in reference to purity; unalloyed metal is sometimes described as virgin, and olive oil is called virgin or extra-virgin if it comes from the first pressing and contains no refined oil. Wow! Extra-virgin, can we classify some people as that? I knew a few real prissy ones in high school or college that would have fit that description.

I am on a personal quest to conquer some of my virginity. Whether it’s sexually or otherwise, I’ll never tell… ok, maybe I will (you’ll have to keep reading my blog to find out). What cherry will you pop this year? Take out your Madonna cd, crank up Like A Virgin and make your mental list. Then get out there and experience life. And if tomorrow at work someone looks at you a little strange in the elevator, look out, they may be working on a list of their own!