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Where Nancy Freedman-Smith, dog trainer and owner of Gooddogz Training, provides a place for dog owners to find positive training tips, canine-activities and places to visit along with the latest information on keeping your dog healthy and active. NOTE TO READERS: Nancy's blog has moved! Check it out in her new home on MainePets.com

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June 08, 2006
it's the people.

Picture this.

Your sitting in a waiting room all day waiting for your car to be fixed, when in walks a rowdy year old Boxer. Dog is wet from the rain, pees on the floor, and is allowed to meet, greet and jump on just about everyone in a six foot radius, and the dog has no manners. Then said Boxer starts to bark and whine, so the owner calls the dog up on a chair to try to quiet him. Owner then blames the dog's bad behavior on her old boyfriend.

Anyone see what is wrong with this picture?

Hello! If your dog is in need of manners, the place to get it is not where I am getting my car fixed. Even my four year old gasped; "Your letting that dog on the chair? My Mom is a dog trainer and you need help".

People - if you insist on taking your dog to a public place, please set a good example because you are representing all dogs. Your dog's bad manners will get us all banned.

I have had dogs in waiting room many times and each time I keep my dog away from customers unless they ask, and if the dog gets fidgety, I take it outside.

Plus if I am annoyed and I am a dog person, what about the people who are not? Show some respect!


After my daughters little outburst, the owner then asked me for training suggestions. Anyone surprised that she didn't listen to a single one?

I felt like the guy whose job it is to make the donuts, and he is so sick of making donuts that he doesn't want anything to do with donuts anymore. By this point, I wanted nothing more to do with this dog. Waiting room at the sixth hour does not make for a happy Mommy, or happy trainer.

Clearly, it's not the dogs it's the people.

Posted by Nancy Freedman-Smith at 12:02 PM

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I agree. I want to say, too, that it's nice to hear -from the mouth of a dog trainer- that those of you in the profession get tired of some aspects of your work. I realize that no matter what our career is, we all have those feelings but, since it was refreshing to hear you admit it. I'm not a trainer but my hobby and interest since I got Kansas has been to read everything regarding training and behavior that I can get my hands on. I just like to be in the know, aware of what's out there and see what works/doesn't work with Kansas and see how she learns. I really enjoy this, but after the recent uproar in some training circles of late and the behavior I've seen/heard/read about from some people in the profession I have to admit the thought of reading anything in the stack of new books I'd just acquired turned my stomach. I was really disappointed to see so much backlash from people in the profession- I don't think it speaks well of the industry as a whole. Differing, opinions, sure, but surely such can be presented in a polite way, rather than in a manner that reflects ill on dog training as a whole.

I realize there are lots of different thoughts and methods-the more I read the more I realize that. I had no idea it was as complicated as varying religious beliefs, etc...and I find myself thinking "this must have been what so many historical revolutions were like way back when. Imagine, one person writes a book and somebody else decides they don't like it and can do it better; so they write their own..." or somebody gets annoyed with certain teachings, disagrees and starts their own practice...

Funny how things can put us "off our feed" so to speak.

Thanks always for your insight and your willingness to be human!

Where might one find a list of acceptable places to take a dog, btw? As a puppy, I took mine into businesses. I felt that was more acceptable. As an adult dog, I don't, but sometimes I'd like to. Is there a "rule of thumb"? or is it "if there's not a sign forbidding it, then it's ok"? I'm familliar with the practice of taking your dog with you to outdoor cafes, and I'm sure there are cities that are more doggy-friendly than others. I worked in the restaurant biz for 3 years and harping "unless it is a licensed therapy dog it cannot come in" was part of my regular script, so I've operated on that end of the spectrum, too. It would definitely be nice to know for sure what's acceptable and what's not in which places. I could do more, socialization-wise, that way.

Posted by Jennifer
June 8, 2006 01:00 PM

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